BOOST YOUR CHILD'S CONFIDENCE

Nurturing your child's self-esteem may seem like a hefty responsibility. After all, a feeling of self-worth lays the foundation for your child's future as he/she sets out to try new things in his own life. Self-esteem comes from having a sense of belonging, believing that we are capable, and knowing our contributions are valued and worthwhile. As a parent, your goal is to ensure that your child develops self-esteem as well as faith in his abilities to handle challenges.

Here are simple strategies that can help boost your child's self-esteem-

GIVE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

Your child benefits the most when you accept them for who they are regardless of their strengths, difficulties, temperament or abilities. So, lavish your kids with love, plenty of hugs, kisses, cuddles and pats on the shoulder. Tell them how much you love your kids.When you have to correct them, make it clear that its their behaviour, not her, that is unacceptable.

PAY ATTENTION

Make out time to give your child undivided attention. That does wonders for your child's feelings of self-worth because it send the message that you think your child is important and valuable. it doesn't take a lot of time. Make eye contact so that your child is clear that you're really listening to what they are saying.

TEACH LIMITS

Make a few reasonable, consistent rules for your child. Knowing the certain family rules are set in stone help the kids feel more secure. they will start to live by your expectations soon enough. Just be clear and consistent and show that you trust your child and expect them to do the right thing.

SUPPORT HEALTHY RISKS

Encourage your child to explore something new, such as trying a different food, making a new friend, or riding a skateboard. Activities that promote cooperation rather than competition, like mentoring programs or volunteering or helping building self-esteem. though there is always the possibility of failure, without risk there's little opportunity for success. Try not to rescue him the minute he is showing mild frustration at figuring out anything. Jumping in to say, 'I will do it' can foster dependence and diminish your child's confidence.

LET MISTAKES HAPPEN

Your child is bound to make mistakes, these are valuable lessons for your child's confidence. Acknowledging and recovering from your mistakes sends a powerful message to your child and makes it easier for your child to accept his own difficulties.

CELEBRATE THE POSITIVE

Everyone responds well to the encouragement, so make an effort to acknowledge the good things that your child does everyday. Be specific. Instead of saying "Good job" say, "Thank you for setting the table for dinner. ' This will enhance the sense of accomplishment and self-worth and let the child know exactly what he/she did right.

LISTEN WELL

If your child needs to talk, stop and listen to what they has to say. A child needs to know that he thoughts, feelings, desires and opinions matter. Help your child get comfortable with her emotions by labelling them. If you share your own feelings with your child, it will help them gain confidence in expressing his own.

RESIST COMPARISONS

Comments like "Why can't you be like your brother?" or any such type just remind your child of where struggles in a way that fosters shame, envy and competition. Even positive comparisons like "you are the best" are potentially damaging because a child can find it hard to live up to this image. If you let your child know that you are appreciate him for the unique individual he/she is. They will be more likely to value themselves too.

PROVIDE ENCOURAGEMENT

Encouragement means acknowledging progress, not just rewarding achievements. Every child needs the kind of support from the loved ones.