KIDS are different

I've raised them the same but they are so different...
I can't believe they came from the same family.

Below are some TRICKS and TIPS for understanding differences

How to raise a RED
STRENGTHS- Leadership, Responsibility, Confidence, Action-oriented, Motivated, Decisive
LIMITATIONS- Bossy, Demanding, Argumentative, Always Right, Aggressive, Manipulative, Selfish
WHAT TO DO- Speak Logically, Be Direct and Specific, Promote their Intelligence, Let them make Decisions.
WHAT NOT TO DO- Do not Lecture, Limit Emotion, Be Authoritative, Never Embarrass them in front of others.

How to raise a BLUE
STRENGTHS- Compassion, Sincerity, Loyalty, Dependability, Well behaved, Easily Disciplined
LIMITATIONS- Easily frustrated, Sensitive, Moody and Emotional, Martyr-like, Critical, Pouty
WHAT TO DO- Be sensitive, Help them feel secure, Appreciate them, Be sincere, Promote Creativity
WHAT NOT TO DO- Don;t make feel guilty, Don't expect spontaneity, Don't demand perfection, Don;t expect them to forgive

How to raise a WHITE
STRENGTHS- Peacekeeper, Undemanding, Accommodating, Comfortable alone, No drama
LIMITATIONS- Resents Pressure, Non-verbal, Uncomfortable socially, Indifferent, Doesn't complete task
WHAT TO DO- Be kind in criticism, Listen quietly, Gently promote involvement, Accept their individuality
WHAT NOT TO DO- Don't be insensitive, Don't except social interactions, Don't demand conformity

How to raise a YELLOW
STRENGTHS- Enjoys life, Accepting social, Loves hugs, Inquisitive, Pliable
LIMITATIONS- Sassy, Defiant of Authority, Selfish, Irresponsible, Teaser
WHAT TO DO- Be Positive, Adore and Praise them, Promote creativity, Allow verbal expression
WHAT NOT TO DO- Don't be too serious, Don't ignore them, Don't demand perfection, Don't consume their time